The two decorated scholars entered from stage right, their six-foot figures soaking in the applause from the crowded auditorium. After all these years of virtual meet-ups and conversations, Dr. Ibram X. Kendi and Dr. Clint Smith seemed just as moved as we all were to finally enjoy each other’s company again.

They wasted no time in getting to business.

Here are five things I learned as a professional historian-in-training at my first guest lecture experience at Dr. Lisa Diller’s (a great mentor and friend) Church History course at Southern Adventist University:

There’s a party tonight, and you’re invited. I’m turning 25 and while we drink sparkling cider to my accomplishments, it’s also time to be honest. I’m having a quarter-life crisis, and you are, too. So come on in, let’s all crowd into my little, gentrified apartment in Washington, D.C.

This week, my family celebrated our first Thanksgiving without Grandad, who passed away earlier this month. Grandad was my buddy and we did everything together. I’m glad I was able to spend this year with him.

There were several amazing teachers and professors who loved and supported me throughout this journey. I obviously didn’t do this by myself and never want anyone to think that I did. I also don’t believe that these situations I’ve gone through were supposed to destroy me, but to remind me of what God’s done in my life before. Special thanks to all of my friends and family who have advised me on this journey. Next stop, Howard University in Washington D.C.